Janurary

Well January is almost over, so hard to believe! I had a fun time in Jonesboro  with Alexandria, as she gave up her title and crowned a New Miss ASU.  It's just fun and exciting to watch these young ladies work hard and then to see who wins, I always make my own Judging sheet, I did not pick the winner that night but had the others:) Then to drive back home and have that special time with Alicia and Victoria, it was making such good memories! 

Steve and I have been busy with work, which I am thankful for, November and December were slow. The weather is suppose to be great this week,  I am tired of cold and dreary and wet! I had rather have snow:) Today Steve and I were looking for some paper work we could not find and went to the storage building, found the sleds, so hope we get to use them:)

Alex and some of our church members are on a mission trip in Costa Rica, please keep them in your prayers.  Please pray for Kay, Clay and I in our court hearing this Thursday. This is very painful for us all, so pray God's will be done. I will be thankful when that hearing is over. My niece Ashlee, Steve's sister's daughter will be having both lower parts of her legs removed Feb. 10th, she is in her 30ths., I am praying for a pulse in her legs and God to heal her, we plan to be there for her and Patsy as she has surgery.

I am really missing Connie and want to go visit so bad, but have to focus on work, then I can play later.  Ready for the beach!  Mama is doing ok, Connie and Tiffany are with her a lot to help her in her grief of Roy's death. Mama is a strong woman, and God is her strength. Pray for her.

This has been a week of missing mother, going through all her things for this court hearing has let me go back though a lot of paper work, which is bittersweet, but it has helped me let tears and grief out:) SO it is good.  Well all my family are doing well, Hannah's goat had a baby:) April and Seth are loving married life, Alexandria made the Chancellor's list!! Victoria has said she wants to go to ASU too! They are all growing up way to fast!  Just hard to believe!

Well hope your week will go good and I pray the Lord blesses and Keeps you in perfect peace! Hugs and night

Miss Arkansas State University 2014, Alexandria Grace Haley

My life:)

November 30th was the big Wedding day for April Rebecca Averitt and Seth Harris! 

  It was such a fun wedding, it would not have happened with out Alex and Jill, Jenn and Hannah came through like troopers!! I am blessed with my children in all their help! 

 





April and Seth dated five years, had planned to marry many times, but the timing was  not right , this time Steve and I knew God had them ready for marriage.  so very thankful.  I was totally wore out form all that to leave the next week end for Eureka Springs for our company Christmas Party, and a weekend of fun festivities it was!

 Byron and Marilyn McKimmey's home is Eureka, they had Limo's bring us from all expense paid hotel room and weekend.

 Rear View

 Picture above mantle is Byron as a baby with his grand father

 Deserts

 The town is so unique, caroller's

 Food

 Old fashion Christmas

Room with antique toys

 

This was such a lovely party and weekend to remember! I work for the most giving bosses!

 

We left there and went to Baton Rouge, My Mawmaw's husband Roy passed away peacefully and unexpected.  He loved my Mawmaw and all of us!

 

 

Menzie, me, Mawmaw, Gavin, Connie and Tiffany

Roy and Mawmaw

My beautiful Mawmaw

 Me and mawmaw at Pier one:) love her so much! Mawmaw is a strong lady, the Lord is her strength, please keep her in your prayers, and Gavin will have major eye surgery Dec. 24th, he needs your prayers.

 

 

 

We drove 1154 miles in that week, but it was all so worth it. love my Mckimmey family and my Simon's family!

 

 

This has been a very busy month so far, I decorated for Christmas yesterday, but have decided for the first time in my life not to put up a tree, we will go to Alicia's for Christmas and Steve and I are just to tired to go all out, we did not put up the lights either, makes me sorta sad but I now understand when people do not put one up. I never understood that.  Last night Hannah who is a coupon guru, sent me to target in Little Rock and I got ALL my Christmas for $120 dollars, I had a price match deal, 20% off coupon then cart wheel it, what ever that is, it rang up $859.84! I paid $142.70 and Hannah is buying back $22.00 for some of it!  It was such a answered prayer, I have been out money with the wedding, then trip, which was only gas, Connie and Larry are great host, but I have some upcoming expense.  As you know this has been a sad time for me too, I am still struggling with depression, I am having to go back through all mother's things to be ready for court with my nephew and sister and it breaks my heart, I am not worried about it just heart broken, then I have another personal issue that is private, but I am need of major prayers. Both have affected my health and I just need to get this all behind me and be ready for 2015! I think I will name it staying in alive in 2015!  Thankful ALL shopping is done and I have a wonderful family who love me!







Merry Christmas to all!







 

Almost December

Totally can not believe it is almost December, just does not seem real. Last year I had my house all decorated in November since we do Thanksgiving at Alicia's, but this year I have enjoyed my fall things so much, and my Pumpkin spice candle.  I have not even got a peek of Christmas out yet.....weird for me.

April and Seth marry this next Sunday, I am so excited, God has just done so much in both of them, we are thankful we get to be apart of their wedding, there were times she was going to marry when the timing was not right, but Seth could always understand when we ask them to wait, so its a blessing that it is now, they are both 24 and have dated since high school, broke up for a short while, but been back together for several years.  God is so good when we wait on Him and let Him do what work needs to be done.  If it were not for Jill I would be in a total panic but she has just helped me, she is the wedding coordinator:) and she is good at it! I am excited because Connie and Larry are coming, so some of my mother's family will be there:)  April has no grand parents left:(( 

speaking of that, we will have some of Walt's and mother's things in the wedding:)) I read a poem that said everything I thought while mother was sick, I want to share it with you:)

YES ... I CRIED
Each day I watched my mother walk,
I heard her sigh, I heard her talk.
She spoke of loved ones no longer here,...
I watched helpless as she shed a tear.
Alzheimer's was stealing my mother away,
and she grew worse each passing day.
She needed help with all her care,
from getting dressed to brushing her hair.
We’d cut her food to help her eat.
This once tidy woman was no longer neat.
She often seemed to live in the past.
Our daily prayer was, how long would this last?
As her memory went, I could only stand by,
frustrated and helpless, and yes...I cried.
Those who love her, she no longer knew.
how long till her memory was completely removed ?
Each day I watched my mother walk.
I heard her sigh., I heard her talk.
I watched daily as she slowly died.
I couldn't help her, and yes...I cried.

©2009, Jerry Ham

such a wonderful poem that really says it all.  I miss her all the time, I am just so thankful she no longer has Alz. but happy in heaven:)

Keep Erma in your prayers, my brother's wife, she had a virus that left her dehydrated, went to ER, to find out her heart was quitting, so she had surgery and had a pace maker, she is home now and recovering, she is doing good.  This should help her feel so much better:) You never know, had she not had the virus they would not have known, and her heart would actually quit, she was pass out/faint like, but did not know why.  She is such a wonderful person, always doing for some one!

My sweet brother and Erma

The McGill's will be here Wed. night, can't wait, then Wednesday we have our McKimmey lunch for Thanksgiving, we feed about 300 people at our office, always

nice to see people we do business with, we have done this for years.

Then Thursday family dinner, Friday I may do Christmas, Saturday decorate for wedding, rehearsal and dinner then  Sunday big day for sure!!!  Monday Dec. first......I will be ready for a break, in between all this, I work, but I have four legs and fur arms:) Steve is always right there helping me!
Now I have made my self nervous wondering how we will do all this, I am tired! Got my self all worked up before bed, hope I can sleep and hope you do too! love and hugs

November and almost December!

I just cannot believe this is almost the middle of November......so many things going on in my life, good things, hard things but all stressful.....not sure how much more stress I can do.  I sang to Sydney several times the past few days, I can do it, I can do it, if I stick to it, I can do it, I can do it, yes I can!! Teaching her in a positive way to keep trying when she gets frustrated. But there is so much, like planning April's wedding in the next 20 days, then not thinking I decided to have open house today, since Jared was, I actually felt faint in getting it ready and putting the sign up. My sweet friend Sherry Maxwell said to me last night, do you think this is what you should be doing with all you have going on?  What if it sold, could you move?  The answer to her questions are no, I think it would totally put me over the edge. I went ahead with open house since it was advertised, we did have a good open house and so did Jared. But at four pm when the time was up, I took my sign down......I think Sherry is right this is just not the right timing for me to sell.  One less thing to worry about:))

I had my sweet Sydney from Thursday till Sat. afternoon, I just loved it, I just needed all that loving and laughing at her:) One thing that I still love to do is be a mother/nana...we went to the condo so she had my full attention and I had hers......I wish I had time to be with each grand child alone for two or three days:)  Bright spot of my week for sure!

Have a full day tomorrow with work and putting out some fires in real estate, then meeting with April to firm up some plans for her wedding. I can not wait for bible study tomorrow night, it is on Hope!!

I am dreading the cold rain Tuesday and cold front, guess I need to make some chili and soups:))

Hope all is well with you and yours, Tomorrow is the day my daddy past away, been 42 years, he was 59 years old when he died. I do not still miss him like I do my mother, but I am thankful I will be with them both again!  On a Happy note, It is my Mama's Birthday tomorrow! She lives in Baton Rough, I plan on going to see her the second week of December:))) Can't wait!! hugs and night

Blogging my thoughts................wedding bells

On some good news, Miss April Rebecca Averitt will Marry Seth Harris Nov. 30th. at 4:00pm.  This is a total answered prayer and a God thing, if you know me then you know the story on this:) Steve and I are excited we have not planned anything yet except the date, so April will be back in town this week and we will need to do some planning, with her it will just be simple and sweet. Then all my babies will be married:) Lot of moving going on, Jared and Jenn have their home for sell. Sean and Sarah are buying a home, Steve and I are about to list our home for sale. April and Seth will be moving into their home:) So a lot of changes!!!

I had a wonderful weekend with my high school friends, much needed, we always feel safe to share our hearts, laugh, cry, wonder why and thankful for why not.

 We had a great weekend. 

When I got home I was running a fever with cough so that set me back some, seems like it is hard to stay well right now, so pray for me.  I am struggling with the death of Beverly and how it changes everything I do no in Real Estate.  But trusting God to help me:) I have at least quit crying so much.
Well no one likes to be a Debbie downer so lets get on the positive side of life!! I am starting to take control of the way I eat and exercise, Steve and I are starting to work out and eat healthy:) I take all kinds of vitamins, so does he, we are ready not to feel 60's:))) 
I love this time of the year, the Holidays are always so family filled for us, Thanksgiving will be at Alicia's and Christmas at Sean and Sarah's new home, if all goes as planned:)  We will go on a Company trip the first weekend of December:) to Eureka Springs for the McKimmey Christmas party, then go see Mama and Roy and Connie and Larry and Tiffany in Baton Rouge for three days. We always took mother in December and I sure want to see mama and Roy while their well:) Then just home to enjoy Christmas! 

The real estate market has been slow, I am making calls to stir up business, if you know of anyone needing my help have them call me:) I am praying for a busy November and end of the year:))  I am also praying I find resolution in some personal areas in my life.  Its exciting to think of moving, not knowing yet where too, but I will know when it  is time:) I want to cut back on the things that distract Steve and I, as we get older, esp. Steve being disabled the yard work is hard and the up keep, so looking for something easy:)) More and more I focus on the fact that life is so short, I want to live it at my pace and enjoy it the best I can!! I love what I do, and enjoy working with Steve side by side, drives me crazy sometimes but I still love it!!  I pray all find something to be grateful for this Holiday Season!! hugs

Life will go on, one step at a time

It has been a week since Beverly's death, we had our sales meeting today, made it as positive as you can make it, we had good business this past two weeks:) There will be some major changes in the way we work, to make our seller's more secure and the agents more secure....its ashamed a  tragedy has to happen for us to realize how unsafe it is.  We have not let this paralyzed us but awaken the level of security. Pres. Clinton said today, there is nothing that can hold us back, but us, which I liked, the more educated we are in safety the more confident we will be and safer we will be:)

April who is my  youngest did move out Sunday, it was a tearful time, we helped her move her things to where she will be living.  Felt like what my friend once said, your throwing a gold fish in the ocean:(  My home is very quiet with just me, Steve and Lovie, but we are adjusting to it, not that April was really loud for those who know her, but just knowing not to leave the light on for her, or seeing her in the mornings, we miss her.

Getting my home ready to go on the market, not sure where I will move yet, but you know me, home is where I hang my hat.  It has been slow going on Jared's house next door, but it will sell, just needs the one buyer:) 

Last night we went with His Church, Pastor Sammons to see Left Behind, it was a good movie, I am so very thankful I will be one of the one's to vanish, if you have not seen it you should, its a intense movie, yet simple....just know your Bible:)  When you go through the last week like I have you appereciate the song, Give me Jesus!

Well got to go to Bryant to show a home, and put a sign on Alicia's new listings so best run:)  Excited to watch NCIS tonight:)    HUGS